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Suggested Reading List for Family Members


Suggested Reading List, Web Sites, and Campus Contacts for Family Members

Don't Tell Me What To Do, Just Send Money
written by Helen E. Johnson and Christine Schelhas-Miller

When children leave for college, many parents feel uncertain about their shifting roles. By emphasizing the importance of being a mentor to your college student, Don't Tell Me What To Do, Just Send Money shows parents how to influence their college student while still supporting their independence. The authors offer valuable insight into the minds of college students and provide parents with simple suggestions for improving communication with their children. Filled with humorous anecdotes and realistic dialogs between parents and students, this comprehensive guide covers a wide range of issues including financial matters, academic concerns, social adjustment, and postgraduate choices.

Empty Nest...Full Heart: the Journey from Home to College
written by Andrea VanSteenhouse, Ph.D.

The author chronicles the tumultuous journey from the senior year of high school, through the challenging summer, to the first year of college for students. Featuring an emphasis on the freshman experience, Empty Nest...Full Heart offers a lighthearted yet savvy look at this turbulent time. The book's generous and compassionate scope makes it lively, humorous, an emotionally resonant.

Helping Your First Year College Student Succeed
written by Richard H. Mullendore and Cathie Hatch of the National Orientation Director's Association

This informational pamphlet focuses on "letting go" as a long-term process that should never be completed. The authors encourage parents to renegotiate their relationship with their student as an adult. This concise guide features ten sections about the major events and feelings parents and students will likely experience during the first year of college and offers suggestions for resolving these issues.

Let the Journey Begin: A Parent's Monthly Guide to the College Experience
written by Jacqueline Kiernan MacKay

As you and your first-year college student begin the school year, many questions may arise. Parent Orientation will be one opportunity to get answers to your questions. Knowing what to ask will help you maximize the benefits of your orientation. Use the strategies in Let the Journey Begin to tackle problems and find solutions. Start with these questions and review more FAQ's in Chapter 2. Remember, there is always something new to learn!

Letting Go: A Parents' Guide to Understanding the College Years
written by Karen Levin Coburn and Madge Lawrence Treeger

Letting Go leads parents through the period of transition that their student experiences between the junior year of high school and college graduation. The authors explain how to distinguish normal development stages from problems that may require parental or professional intervention. The new edition explains the differences between college life today and the college life parents experienced twenty or thirty years ago. It features a completely new resource guide that introduces parents to campus technology, useful websites, and other organizations providing information on a wide range of topics.

Studying Smart: Time Management for College Students
written by Diana Schart-Hunt and Pam Hait

An invaluable resource for any college student, Studying Smart teaches a proved system for managing time to complete all one's work successfully. The authors offer tips to estimate how long an assignment will take, how to take notes efficiently, 20 tips for getting top grades, and more.

You're on Your Own (But I'm Here if You Need Me): Mentoring Your Child During the College Years
written by Marjorie Savage

This book helps to recognize the boundaries for a parent and student between necessary involvement and respect for independence. As a parent herself, Marjorie Savage, empathizes with moms and dads; while at the same time, as a professional working in student services, understands the complexity of student's issues.


When Kids Go to College: A Parents Guide to Changing Relationships
written by Barbara M. Newman and Philip Newman

This practical guide will answer that important question and tell you how to make the most of these exciting years. Topics covered in this book are: identity formation, values development, career exploration, social relationships, sexuality, alcohol and drug abuse, romantic relationships, dorm life, personal freedom, depression, discrimination, and college bureaucracy.

Links to Other Parent and Family Resources

College Parents of America: http://www.collegeparents.org

"What is College Parents of America? College parents of America (CPA) is the only national membership association dedicated to helping parents prepare and put their children through college easily, economically and safely. Today, college parents represent an estimated 12 million households. An additional 24 million households are currently saving and otherwise preparing children for college. CPA is a resource, an advisor and an advocate working on behalf of these millions of families."

Alcohol, Other Drugs, and College: A Parent's Guide: http://www.edc.org/hec/pubs/parents.html

PFLAG (Parents, Families, Friends of Lesbians and Gays): (http://www.pflag.org) an excellent site offering good general information about issues facing GLBT individuals and how their loved ones may assist and advocate for them.

The Parent Connection: (updated!) (http://www.edc.org/hec/parents/) information for parents on alcohol and other drug prevention.

National Resource Center for First-Year Experience and Students in Transition: http://www.sc.edu/fye/ lots of other FYE resource information.

College Times:http://nytimes.com/college/index.html .A section of the NY Times Online. If you haven't accessed the NY Times site before, you will have to register and establish a password. It's free and full of great information for both students and parents.

Campus Resources

You may be the first person your son or daughter turns to when they have a question or are in trouble. They need to know these resources. You can point them toward them.

Academic Advising/Registration
Dempsey 130
920/424-0303


Career Services
Dempsey 230
920/424-2181


Dean of Students

Dempsey 125
920/424-3100


University Dining
Black Hawk Commons - Basement
920- 424-2391


Financial Aid
Dempsey 104
920-424-3377


Math Lab
Swart Hall S113
920-424-7356

Reading-Study Center
Education 201
920-424-1031

Residence Life
Gruenhagen - 263 South
920-424-3212

Student Health Center
First Floor, Radford Hall
920-424-2424


Student Support Services
Dempsey 130
920-424-1310

University Counseling Center
Dempsey 201
920-424-2061

Writing Lab
Radford Hall Basement
920-424-1152

Emergency

University Police
920- 424-1212

After Hours Crisis Intervention Helpline
24 hour telephone counseling & referral.
The helpline can assist contact to a University Counseling Center staff member after hours.
920- 233-7707

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